Thursday, November 01, 2007

On happiness

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M\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n trong friend list c\u1ee7a t\u1edb th\u1eed \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cho 6 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n quen: L\u1ea7n g\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea5y nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00e0nh r\u1ecdt v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea7n g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ebf m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00e0 vi\u00ean m\u00e3n th\u1eadt hi\u1ebfm- m\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb trung, kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n c\u1ea3.

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 cho l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111i t\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. V\u00e0 trong c\u00e1c c\u00e2u ch\u00fac t\u1ee5ng th\u00ec c\u00e2u ch\u00fac c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ch\u00fac h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i trong ti\u1ebfng Anh, t\u1eeb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi v\u1edbi c\u00e1c l\u1eddi ch\u00fac \u201cHappy New Year\u201d, \u201cHappy Birthday\u201d\u2026Nh\u01b0ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 h\u00e0ng h\u00f3a xa x\u1ec9 v\u00e0 hi\u1ebfm c\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n tr\u00e1i kho\u00e1y, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a ta.

Khi m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc t\u00ecm ra c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ebf ecstasy (v\u00e2ng, \u0111\u00fang lo\u1ea1i ma t\u00fay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ec7nh danh l\u00e0 \"vi\u00ean t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\" \u1ea5y), \u00f4ng ta t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1: T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng- b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng h\u00f3a d\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea9m \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba n\u00e3o r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. C\u00f2n th\u00ec tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u00e3o ch\u00fang ta qu\u00e1 kh\u00f4n, qu\u00e1 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u1ee7 quan c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n best-seller c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 \u201cStumbling on Happiness\u201d . T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi n\u00f3 v\u00ec cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111o\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng cho s\u00e1ch ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn khoa h\u1ecdc hay nh\u1ea5t n\u0103m v\u1eeba qua.

Lu\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u00ecnh c\u1edd, nh\u01b0 t\u00ean s\u00e1ch n\u00eau ra. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra khi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t \u0111au kh\u1ed5 n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n XYZ x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 \u1ea5y n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u0169ng s\u1ebd qua nhanh h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129.

V\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u1ef1c ra ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u1ea3o \u1ea3nh, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba b\u1ea1n th\u00f4i. C\u00e0ng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, c\u00e0ng tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i, c\u00e0ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm n\u00f3 th\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng \u00edt \u0111i. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta, n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi- ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n v\u00ed nh\u01b0 ch\u1ea1m m\u00f4i v\u00e0o mi\u1ebfng th\u1ecbt b\u00f2 \u01b0\u1edbt :D. Ho\u1eb7c li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4i khi trong khi t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u1eafm m\u1edbi c\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee3t c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i. Nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp, vi\u00ean m\u00e3n (c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au l\u1edbn lao, kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp nh\u1ea5t) l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n \u201cv\u1ea5p v\u00e0o\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00ecnh
c\u1edd. Vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0o h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u1edb tr\u00eau sao?.

V\u1eady l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac? \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi n\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 n\u00f3. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai b\u1ea1n, cho nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y g\u1ea1t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ra trong k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng tr\u00f4ng c\u1eady r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.

V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n gi\u00e0u, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb9p, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ABC XYZ, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 tin ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.

Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00eam mu\u1ed1n \u0111i v\u1ec1 con ph\u1ed1 xa
Nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00eam mu\u1ed1n quay v\u1ec1 ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00e1i nh\u00e0




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